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Sometimes she undresses in front of the window to see how far I’ll let her go. She moves slowly, drops things carelessly onto the floor, and looks back to watch me squirm. 

visionaria asked: PS. Why would I knock, I have a key. *Wink*

See what I mean?

lovelystorytold asked: I'd like to email you informing you that I will be knocking on your door soon.

This night is getting better by the minute.

visionaria asked: How is it I always miss your q&a sessions? Boo!

My Dear, you can ask me anything you like.  Of course, you can also call me, text me, tweet me, e-mail, or come knock on my door anytime you like. 

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This was that moment.

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He was just waiting for the right moment.

Anonymous asked: I'm a young woman and I love the idea of group sex, exhibitionism and fun casual sex and play in a safe setting...but I'm not really sure where to start. I'm quite wary of the internet, and I have no-one that I could make connections through (my friends are also young and to be honest, quite green). Where did you meet your delightful friends, and do you have any suggestion on how I could maybe get get into the 'scene'? Also are young (but legal) people usually welcome at these sort of things?

Thanks for writing!

Time Out New York recently did an article on the sex party scene in New York that we pretty interesting. But it really depends on what type of scene you’re looking for.  There a kink parties, play parties, giant sex parties, private sex parties, queer parties, and everything in between.  

A good place to start is Fetlife.com.  They have a huge listing of events all over the country that cross the gamut. 

Many of the parties in and around NY are 19 and up.  Some are 21 and over though, so depending on your ages, it’s good to make sure before you sign up for something. 

I met many of my friends through Poly Cocktails, which is a monthly meet and greet in NYC. It was an easy place for me to make friends, and learn about the various scenes and parties.

My only advice is to go (wherever you decide) with a friend.  Take your time, see what feels safe and interesting, and don’t let anyone pressure you into something you’re not comfortable doing.  Any party worth it’s salt makes space for people new to the scene without asking them to push their boundaries right away.

I hope that helps!

mizboop asked: How come your e-books are not on iTunes? I love ur short stories and would love to read ur books.

Up until very recently Apple made publishing e-books a giant pain in the ass.  And since QNY is really just a hobby for me, it was too much work to put up my books in more than one or two formats. 

The thing I like about Amazon is that you can read a Kindle book on almost anything.  From a web browser to an iPad, there’s a Kindle app for everything.  With a little conversion you can even read them on a NOOK.  

Here’s a link to all of the Kindle apps, including the iPad one.

jscottgrand asked: What's it like to work with j. scott grand? I think he's dreamy. :)

He is dreamy, and it’s frustrating because as soon as we sit down to edit something with one of our authors they just stare at him blindly until we have to pour whisky on them to shake them out of it.

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Anonymous asked: How do you cast your shoots

On the first Sunday of each month we throw a giant party and invite everyone we know.  We provide enough booze to knock over an elephant and we wait until everyone starts to undress.  Once the entire party has stripped down to their underthings, we see who owns the cutest lingerie and we go from there.

Or more clearly stated, we don’t currently have a strict casting policy. We work fairly organically and mostly through friends and word of mouth.

Thank you for asking!